Rather than focus and complain about what's NOT working, get clear on what IS possible.
Sometimes, things won't change no matter what you do. If you'd like to know, ask “What's possible here? Can I change this? If so, how?”
This question is designed to help you see ways to step around, walk away, dig under, or fly over the brick wall, rather than bang your head against it.
Brick walls are not wrong and have no evil intent to hurt you. They are simply a brick walls by nature and are happy to stay that way, no matter how hard you try to change them.
So get clear on the brick walls in your life and find other ways around or away. Your head will thank you for it.