Time and money are two reasons people will always give for not doing something. What if you took them out of the equation so you could see what you'd really like to choose?
To find out, ask “If time and money weren't the issue, what would I choose?”Once you are clear on your true desire, you can ask other questions to make it happen, for example
- “What will it take for the money/a babysitter to show up?”
- “What will it take for my parents/spouse/boss/bank/friend to give me the time/money to do this thing I'd really love to do?”
Make sure you ask for more than you think you want, or can even imagine, without incurring hardship, by adding “...with ease, or something greater?”