For you to be unable to change something, you have to have decided or concluded something about it.
For example, what have you decided in your life is perfect or the answer? A relationship? A job? A business?
When you can see your decisions – and are willing to let them go – all change becomes possible.
So when you're stuck, ask “What decisions, conclusions and answers have I made about this?”
This does not mean you have to end the relationship, or job, or business. You can transform it into something else, something better than you could have ever imagined.
How? Ask another question.