What if you could have fun AND do amazingly well at study, work, business, family and community life? Would you like to find out? If so, ask “What fun could I add to my life?”
It could be anything, large or small. Like learning the ukulele once a week, sweating at bootcamp at lunch, asking your insignificant other to make you breakfast-in-bed and take the kids to school while you sleep in, spending 10 days on holiday in Hawaii. If you already have a little of it, add more.
And there's no need to stick with it forever. If your fun drops off, ask the question again and make another choice. If you feel like you don't have enough time or money to add fun, ask “What would it take to create the money/time for this?” You'll be amazed at what you can create when you ask. Fun: are you willing to have more?