Some people are. And they are REALLY good at it. Trouble is, they also get irritated – downright cranky – when the ducks don't line up and the kittens don't herd.
If you know that feeling and you'd like to be free from it's control, then consider nature. The most highly functional and efficient systems exist in apparent chaos. Do flowers grow (naturally) in neat rows?
No. And yet the bees find them, pollinate them, and contribute elegantly to sustaining life on the planet.
What if you were like a bee?
What if, regardless of the apparent chaos, you could find the flowers, and contribute awesomely to your life? So ask “What if I created my life from chaos?”
This is not to suggest you create random, artificial chaos. Simply that even if things appear messy, you need not be at their mercy if you can see where to collect the pollen.