What am I trying to clear that isn't true?

Have you ever tried to change something in your life continually, but to no effect even though you've asked a thousand genuine questions?

For example, has someone ever told you that you weren't good enough and you should try even harder? Or that something about you was not appropriate and you had to overcome it? Perhaps you're too vocal, disruptive, creative, poor, uneducated, powerless, unattractive, or have some other failing?

What if in fact, there was nothing wrong with you? What if you have been buying into a lie that someone else wanted to you to believe?

Is it possible to overcome, change or clear something that doesn't exist? What would you do if someone told you you were a rabbit? Would you believe them and work feverishly to change out of being a rabbit? Or would you say "Um, huh?" I'm not a rabbit. I'm me!" and get on with enjoying your life?

So if you'd like to create greater ease around things you have assumed were 'wrong' about you, and that you should change but so far haven't been able to, ask "What am I trying to clear that isn't true?"

If something's not true to start with, how can you clear it? Simply recognise the lie and it can no longer exist.