What have I decided I must be?

What decisions have you made about who or what you must be? A doctor, lawyer, government official, part of the family business, father/mother, a good child, what else? And to be anything else is to be less?

Were they your ideas? Or someone else's?

Whatever the reasons, decisions will only limit you. You've decided, so you can't change it, even if it's no longer working for you. 

Questions on the other hand will help you see possibilities you might not have been willing or able to see before. Questions will empower you to choose consciously what you'd really like. 

So if you'd like to create the life you'd really enjoy, the world you'd prefer to live in, ask "What have I decided I must be?" followed by "If I could choose anything, who and what would I be?" and then "What action can I take?"

You may choose exactly the same as you are now. Or you may not. 

In either case, the choice will be consciously yours, so how will you feel about it? The same or different?