What have I decided is a problem?

Got problems? Do you like them? Does it give you something to chat about with your friends, a puzzle to solve?

What if you didn't have problems?

What could you enjoy using the time and energy you now pour into problem solving?

If you'd like to find out, ask “What have I decided is a problem, which if I looked at it differently is something to be thankful for?”

For example, rather than being upset that you have to work from home, be grateful you're getting paid to work in your PJs. Rather than be frustrated about home schooling your kids, be grateful you can create a special time together before they grow up and never want to see you again. Rather than be angered that authorities are limiting your choices, be grateful for the chance to find out what really matters to you. Rather than wallowing in victimhood, be grateful that you still have choices and can create the world you'd really like if you choose.

So next time you find yourself complaining about something weighing you down, rather than trying to fix the problem (make it a better problem?), what if you looked at it differently and transformed it into something else?

How? Next question: "What action can I take?"