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나는 이것을 바꾸고 싶은가? 그렇다면 어떻게?

14/2/2013

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뭔가를 바꾸고 싶을 땐“이건 무엇인가?”라는 질문을 통해 바꾸고 싶은 것이 정확히 무엇인지를 밝히고, 그 다음 질문은 “나는 이것을 바꾸고 싶은가?”입니다. 무언가를 바꾸기 위해선 당신은 이를 진심으로 원해야 하며 이에 따른 것들을 감수할 마음이 있어야 하는 것입니다. 그런 다음에는 바로 다음과 같은 질문을 던질 수 있습니다. “그렇다면 어떻게?”

당신은 다른 사람을 바꿀 수 있나요? 불가능합니다. 그게 가능했다면 당신의 상사가 당신에게 천번 째 같은 정보를 요구하는 일은 없었을 테니까요. 당신이 바꿀 수 있는 유일한 것은 자기 자신과 자신이 사물을 바라보는 관점들입니다.

예를 들어 당신의 상사가 당신이 전에 주었던 정보에 대해 항상 되풀이해서 묻는다고 했을 땐 다른 어떤 것이 가능할까요? 이러한 요구사항들을 보다 효율적으로 관리할 수 있는 시스템을 설치하겠다고 상사에게 말하는 것은 어떨까요? 상사가 또 잊어버릴 것이라는 것을 예측하여 당신에게 다시 묻기 전에 같은 정보를 앞서 여러 번 주는 것은 어떨까요?

또는 당신의 분노를 자극하는 것들에 대해 인식을 하고 있다가 상사가 이를 건드리면 웃으면서 이렇게 말해보세요. “물론이죠. 지금 바로 가져다 드릴께요. 다른 필요한 것은 없으신가요?" 화, 스트레스, 불운을 모두 사라지게 만드는 환상적인 방법들은 여러가지가 있습니다. 오직 당신의 바꾸고자 하는 마음가짐만이 필요할 뿐입니다.
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