Have you ever been stuck not knowing what to do? You've got two or more great (or not so great) options and you just don't know which one to go with?

Are you frozen by the idea that you might make the wrong choice? Have you made this choice the answer to your life? And if you get it wrong, people will say "there you go again, making no-good choice" and your life will be over?

Is that true? What if there were no wrong choices? What if no choice was the answer to your life? What if a choice was quite simply that: a choice. A choice that is good for 10 seconds, and then you get to choose again. 

​How does that feel? A bit lighter? Can you choose now?

So go on, remind yourself: a choice is just a choice and you can do it every  10 seconds. When you're stuck, ask "What if I just chose, dammit?"  

​Then choose. Repeat. 

What's your point of view about magic? That it's voodoo and a lie? Or that it's a bit of a laugh for kids? (But wow...what if you really could do things like Harry Potter and X-men? Wouldn't that be fun!)

Do you ever have wonderful people or things show up in your life with ease and by surprise? Is that like magic?

Does it make you smile?

What if magic were simply things appearing from a source you couldn't see and didn't yet understand? What if magic was simply science you couldn't yet explain? Like if you now saw fire for the first time?

If you'd like to invite more magic into your life and create things you thought impossible, ask "What magic can I ask for today?"

And then ask. 

Do you find you are often disappointed by the way things turn out? Are you ever let down by what people say or do?

Have you ever tried to explain to someone exactly what behaviour and words would make things work like magic between you? Did they hear you? How often has someone tried to convince you that their point of view is what you really desire?

Can you control what other people do in their lives, even in relation to you? No. People will always do exactly what works for them and pay no attention to your point of view.

The only thing you can change is you. So if you'd like to be free of feeling disappointed or let down by other people, ask "What expectations do I have here?"

When you are clear about your expectations, ask another question, like "If I had no expectations of anything or anyone, what could I change to create the result I'd truly like?"

What if creating what you'd like in life was as simple as changing your point of view?

How many times a day do you hear yourself saying "I'd like to be/ do/ have X but I can't/ shouldn't/ because of X? Once, 10, 100 times a day?

Sure you're clever. You've analyzed the thing from all angles and worked out exactly why you can't/ shouldn't. And you're not wrong. When you decide something is not possible, you're absolutely right. It's not. 

Would you like more possibility in life? Would you like to be/ do/ have all those things you've decided are not possible?

If so, ask "What if I stopped being my greatest limitation and started living?"

Think of this as a gentle slap on the cheek to remind you all things are possible. Then ask another question, or six hundred, and create your life as you'd really like. 

Do you ever find yourself talking about a particular topic to anyone who'll listen? Something you'd like people to notice and agree with you about? It could be about the state of the nation, the office, or people's houses, clothes or bodies? The Latest Crisis of the Week?

When you do that, notice your energy. Do you talk about it lightly as a question with an interesting point of view energy, and then get on with the fun of life?

Or do you sense a heaviness, a stickiness which distracts you from being joyful?

When you say interesting and get on with it, you are being aware and in allowance of it. When you get gummed up with its heaviness, you are the effect of it.

So if you'd like to have uninterrupted access to joy in life — no matter what is going on in the world — next time you notice yourself repeatedly thinking, saying or doing something, ask "Am I in allowance, or the effect of this?"

If you'd like to change something — not simply talk about it — ask more questions, like "What is this? Can I change it? If so how?" and "What action can I take"?

How do you shop for clothes? Are you a bargain hunter? Do you rely on a friend, shop assistant, or internet influencer to tell you what to buy? 

Do you consider what other people will approve? For example, it's the latest fashion that your friends will admire, or its safe-conservative that your workplace will accept?

Do you ever ask your body?

How does your approach work for you? Is your wardrobe full of clothes you absolutely adore? Are your clothes a joy to wear and make you feel happy all over? Do they make you smile and strut your stuff?

Or do you shuffle through life feeling slightly uncomfortable and dressed not quite right?

For fun, next time you go shopping or open your wardrobe, ask "Body, what would you like to wear?" Notice what draws your hand or eyes. Touch it. Notice how your skin feels.

You'll know when your body wants to wear something. And if nothing draws you, keep on moving until you find something that does...even if that's nothing ;-)

Do you have hideous amounts of money? Or just as much as you need to enjoy life? Perhaps you have none at all?

What have you decided money is? Dirty? A necessity? The root of all evil? The Answer to My Life? 

Are any of these true? Or does money simply have the meaning you give it?

How much have you decided is okay to have? How did you decide? And have you defined the things you can enjoy to fit within its limits?

If you would like to change your money flows, start by clearing all the definitions you have about money, and ask "What have I decided money is?"

What if instead, you considered money a fun, fabulous tool to enable you to do all — and more — of the things you enjoy in life, including contributing to you, your friends, family and communities?

Would that be an invitation for more to come and play?

Have you ever been told you're too loud, too active, too energetic, too happy, too full of life and could you TURN IT DOWN or PUT A LID ON IT?

Do you feel bad about it? Do you feel wrong?

What if there were nothing wrong with you?

What if some people simply don't get your energy, your exuberant expression of life?

What if your energy and exuberance is an amazing capacity, a phenomenal talent? A gift the world needs?

If you'd like to remind yourself that your energy and exuberance is not wrong, and that some people will simply not get you and become angry or annoyed, ask "How many people can I wake up with my exuberance today?"

Then smile and dance on.

How often do you get stuck in life? A lot, a little or not at all? Do you ever get into a cranky pants rage or spiral into a frenzy of anxiety? Is that fun for you?

If not, and you'd prefer to have total freedom to see and walk around such roadblocks — to be able to change anything that's not working for you in life — start by asking one of these questions. 

​1. What if I had infinite, free choice? 

2. What if everything were just an interesting point of view?

3. If I had 10 second to choose the rest of my life, what would I choose?

4. What question could I ask?

5. What if form and structure had no significance?

6. Am I in judgement? 

7. What does this add to my life?

8. What's the value of competition?

9. What if I didn't buy the story?

10. What am I excluding here? 

The reality is, you always have choice. 

Is your life full of ease, joy and abundance?

​Not so much? No surprise given how many people seem to enjoy telling you that life must be hard, no fun, and a knock-down-drag-out fight to the death for scarce and dwindling resources. Not to mention the Fear and Terror of The Plague.

What if that were not true? If you'd like to find out what else is possible, add this daily mantra to your wake-up routine.

"All of life comes to me with ease and joy and glory."

Saying this will remind you that how you function in life is your choice. And, if you choose, you can function from ease and joy and glory (exuberant expression and abundance) no matter what is going on.

Even when "things go wrong" you can experience them with ease and create any change you desire.

It's all of life, the good, the bad, the beautiful and the ugly. Everything is included and nothing as to be a difficulty.

The reality is, you always have a choice.