Can I change this? If so, how?

Something not working the way you'd like at the moment? Has your world turned 180 degrees upside down and inside out? How many concrete walls are you banging your head against?

What if rather than focusing on what's not working, get clear on what change is possible.

Sometimes, things won't change no matter what you do.

So if you'd like clarity about what will change and what won't, ask “What's possible? Can I change this? If so, how?”

These questions will help you see ways you might step around, walk away, dig under, or fly over the concrete wall, rather than bang your head against it.

The wall is not wrong and has no evil intent to hurt you. It is simply a wall that is happy to stay that way.

So get clear on the concrete walls in your life and find another way around or away. Your head will thank you for it.