How did I create this?

Do you ever blame other people or circumstances for things that don't work out in your life? 

Does it make you feel better and help you create the life you'd actually like? Or does it side-track you into an Alice-in-Wonderland like maze of distraction?

If you'd like to create the life you'd like, acknowledge your role as creator of everything that shows up in it. 

How? For every good, bad, ugly, beautiful thing that shows up in it, ask "How did I create this?"

It'll be easy for the good, beautiful things. What about the bad, ugly things?

What if by taking ownership of everything in your life, you gained clarity over how you created it? Then, if it doesn't work for you (bad/ugly), you can see how to create it differently.

How? Ask questions.