I'm sorry, I'm confused. Can you show me?

Have you ever noticed that you're a little too smart or too fast for most people? What you get in a heartbeat, others can take minutes or even years to get, if ever? 

Sometimes it's most effective to be Cute Not Bright, even though you're not.

​Instead of fighting to be heard or understood, play Blonde and ask “I'm sorry. I'm confused. I thought A, B, C and here is X Y Z. What do you know? Can you please show me X to help me understand?” 
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Practice saying this authentically with a pure, innocent blonde energy; it won't work using your natural more-powerful-than-a-locomotive vibe. 

When people are telling you something in a SHOUTY voice as if you're an IDIOT, oblige them by asking Dumb And Confused questions. Gently lead them to either tell you what you already knew (but which they would never admit if you challenged them) or admit they can tell you, but they can't show you. 

The aim is not to prove you're right and they're wrong. This is a tool to help you get the result you desire, with the greatest ease.