What am I unwilling to receive?

Are the things you'd like not showing up in your life?

Perhaps you're (select any and all that apply): smart, educated, articulate, hard working, diligent, polite, kind, good looking, well connected, in the zone, lucky, [enter your own special talents here _________________________], and generally have everything going for you, and yet the things you'd like are just not showing up. What is that? 

Do you have any of these points of view?

• I can/should do everything myself.
• I should be self-sufficient/self-made.
• Handouts are wrong.
• I know best.
• Everyone else is stupid.
• I can't rely on anyone else.

Having any of these, or similar points of view will cut off your ability to receive. In other words, even when things try to show up in your life, you won't see or allow them in. 

So if you'd like to allow the things you'd like into your life, ask yourself “What am I unwilling to receive?” 

When you're clear on your points of view about receiving, ask "What's it going to take for X to show up?" again. Then notice what shows up - no matter in what form and including somebody else's point of view -  and ask "What action could I take?"