What choices would I have if I weren't upset?

What do you do when something goes 'wrong'? Do you think clearly and ask yourself calmly "What's right about this I'm not getting?"  Or do you get upset? 

What happens when you get upset? Does your awareness expand, or contract? Can you see and create more, or less? 

​There is nothing wrong with being upset. Choose it if it's fun for you. 

If you'd prefer to be free of trauma and drama and have greater possibilities, ask "What choices would I have if I weren't upset?" 

What if by living from allowance — where everything is simply an interesting point of view — trauma and drama and upset and intrigue vanished, no one and nothing could control you, and everything in your life got easier? Would that be fun?