Are you looking for love? How often have you thought you found it, or were close, only to be disappointed at best, or at worst horribly abused? Did you blame yourself for failing and then continue on your quest to find it? How many times have you done the same thing?
How do you define 'love'? Does everyone define love the same as you? For example, ever heard people talk about 'tough love,' saying "I'm doing this [horrible thing] to you because I love you" ? Did you think "I wish you'd love me a little less?" What about people who say "If you love me you'll do this [thing I know you really don't want to do]"?
Do most definitions of love acknowledge or honour you at all? Or do people use the word love to control you so you'll do what they want?
If you'd like to create nurturing, generative relationships, ask "What does love mean to me?" Then notice what you actually desire, but that others might not include in their definitions. Once you're clear about that, you can invite that into your life, no matter what name you give it.
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