What if I wasn't shy?

Do you consider yourself a shy person? While everyone else around you seems to desire being seen and heard, do you prefer to be quietly unnoticed? 

Have you made being shy a wrongness? Has someone else told you it's wrong and that you should change? 

What if being shy wasn't what you thought it was? If you'd like to find out, ask "​What if I wasn't shy?"

Perhaps shyness is your ploy to get others to reach out to you? Rather than fending off the idiot moths who flock to the flame of celebrity, you're most content to wait quietly in the field for the right bee to find you. 

There's nothing wrong with being shy if you're aware of your choice. So if you sense your shyness might come from obeying someone, sometime long ago telling you to shut up and keep your head down, ask "If I were me, who would I be?"