What have I decided I can't change?

Have you been trying for some time to create the job, business, relationship, policy, organisational culture, societal change, or the life you'd like, but can't ever seem to make it happen? 

If you've been stuck on something for a while and not achieved the result you'd like, you may have some deeply held, unconscious decisions that are limiting you. 

For example, is there anything you believe can't be changed? Where you have to live, study or work, or what you have to do or be for someone else? That you are just one person, alone, too small, insignificant and powerless to effect any change on the world?

What if you could change anything? What would be possible for you then, and what would you choose?

If you'd like to move beyond the places that have been keeping you stuck, ask "What have I decided I can't change?" and notice what comes to  mind. 

When you start seeing where and how you've been keeping yourself stuck with unspoken decisions, then ask "What else is possible?" "Can I change this? If so how?" and "What action can I take?" 

Repeat. ​